Is lending money a good idea? Of course! When you lend, specially money, you make good relationship between two people and that is very important nowadays. If you are lending money, it means that you are generous, and the person who looked for your support want you for some special reason. In the same way, if you are asking for something, that does not belong to you and you get what you asked for, it means you are a truthful person and is been expected to pay it back. So, you have to be in mind that something which does not belong to you is expected to return in the same conditions when you got.
The most important in this case is be honest and committed with the agreement because if you do not, you will not be lucky to get another personal loan. For instance, I will not trust anymore in a person who asked me money once, and have not already paid for it, or delay more than we agreed. Likewise, if you lend money for someone and this person now is asking you for something borrowed you have to be fair and show him a gentlemen gesture, such as: I support you when you need, and I will cover your back too.
Definitely it is a good idea. We are talking about friends whether it is a large amount of money or not. In fact, if that person is looking for your help it means that honestly your support is necessary. The question “Could you lend me some money?” is hard to ask for everyone. It is embarrassing, also when you have to ask a friend or family about it. You know how your friend is and you do not need reasons to lend it. It is not a business; that person is familiar. Like that person is for you, you are for that person. In addition and talking about friends, sometimes you know that they need before asking. In the case that you need your money back because it was too much money, you have enough belief to ask him for it.
I think that is depend of who you trust. Sometimes we have to be good person and help the people that is close to us. But, that is exactly what a i meant. If you decided to lend money to someone that is not exactly your good friend, you are taking the risk. In a fact, you also have to think that we don´t know if we always going to be in a good economic position. And in that moment, think about who is going to support us?
But the risk involve. When someone that you think you know, end up betraying. for example one time ago i lend money to one of my friend. And she never pay me back. And we ended up fighting each other. Maybe, lend money could be good, but everything depend of the honesty of the person that you trust.
Usually lend money to a friend is a good idea. If he is a real friend, for sure he will give you back the money. But it could be also a bad idea if the person that recive the money is a bad man. Maybe he doesn't want to give you the money back and you will ruin a friendship for a stupid reason. Sometimes the money could be like evil, in our society more and more people think that the money are the most important thing of our life. That type of person have lost their valors and their souls, because there are a lot of things more important than the money. So if you want to lend money you have to be careful and try to understand what type of person is asking you the money before give it to him.
Thanks to my experience i understand that lend money to friends is not a good idea , because rarely they will give you back it. I remember one time which I lended the money to a friend to buy a train ticket for Milan , I have never see again . I have never required back them. For this personal experience I am sceptical to lend money to a friend ; of curse exist that person that give you back the money and sometimes with the interests too but , unfortunatelly, I don't have had the fortune to meet him . However , with this experience I know that can't to be a good thing give money to friends or other people because you can't know if you will be returned. But the situation could change if we were talking about business. Lend money to a company or to an association can be considered a good idea because you know that , sooner or later ,the money that you have invested or give to them will be returned , thing that with your friends you aren't certain. Nonetheless even when you lean money to a company you have to be careful because , before you give the money in the hand of other people , you must to know where you put it. The money , generally , is a difficoult thing to manage , we can't joke with it , is not a toys and we have always to be careful with it.
Its depends, about the kind of friends that you have , is those are good with you and gives you back the favors and pay you back you(without ask for it) should do everything for them, and if the contrary you just do not len more money to them . A lot of people are just with you because is probably that They just need something that you can proportion or give it to them(They should ask you for a lot of thing every time) . But a little percent of them really care about you . You just have to know chose the right people. I'm late but I always do <3
Its depends, about the kind of friends that you have , is those are good with you and gives you back the favors and pay you back you(without ask for it) should do everything for them, and if the contrary you just do not len more money to them . A lot of people are just with you because is probably that They just need something that you can proportion or give it to them(They should ask you for a lot of thing every time) . But a little percent of them really care about you . You just have to know chose the right people. I'm late but I always do it <3
I think It depends to whom are you lending money, because if is a closer friend you could lend that money. But you have to know that maybe that person is not going to give you that money back.
If friends need money, I would lend money to them no matter if they pay me back or not, but sometimes you need your money back and you have to ask to that person about your money. The most important thing is trust in the person that you are lending money and then you'll see if they give you your money back.
Helping someone is always a good idea, even more if it is a friend and if I have enough money to help. But, I think that the conditions of the loan have to be clear, maybe agree a payment period, if I know that my friend have the opportunity to pay me back, or lending money knowing that I won´t see again, because not worth losing a friendship because of money. Also, for me is important know what my friend will do with the money, because I don't have spare money and I am going to take money from my expenses.
I think it's a good idea to lend money to a friend because it's important to help your friends. It's a proof of your generosity. But nowadays you need to know very good the person and to be confident. Indeed today the honesty of people doesn't always exist anymore. For example, in my country, I already observed that people don't refund by themselves. You often need to remind them that you lend money. It's because in Europe some values are lost and the money become the only important thing.
I think it's a good idea to lend money to a friend only if he is a confident person that you really know for a long time en if his asking is not too exaggerated. In my opininion, lend money because his wallet was recently stolen or because it is the end of the month is of course a common act of generosity between good friends. In an other case, if my friend has a real problem of money because he spends it too easily, he's not frugal and collects debts, I won't lend him money because I know that he wouldn't be able to help me if I have a problem. In this kind of case, I prefer help him with solutions in the long term. It's also important to support your friend when they are in the real "shit" as spend time with him to care about his finances, count his income and spending, maybe search a part time job with him, give some advices about how spend money in the real necessaries, search a appartment less expensive ... I'd also like to suggest to be careful about your friendship, to be always sure that the person you think know is a honest person who don't steal your money, your time, your compasion and your heart. In conclusion, helping your best friend, your brother or your boy friend when it is necessary is of course a good thing but stay careful. Don't forget that the person who needs your help has to be capable to cope with his personal problems before call you.
Is lending money a good idea? Of course! When you lend, specially money, you make good relationship between two people and that is very important nowadays. If you are lending money, it means that you are generous, and the person who looked for your support want you for some special reason. In the same way, if you are asking for something, that does not belong to you and you get what you asked for, it means you are a truthful person and is been expected to pay it back. So, you have to be in mind that something which does not belong to you is expected to return in the same conditions when you got.
ReplyDeleteThe most important in this case is be honest and committed with the agreement because if you do not, you will not be lucky to get another personal loan. For instance, I will not trust anymore in a person who asked me money once, and have not already paid for it, or delay more than we agreed. Likewise, if you lend money for someone and this person now is asking you for something borrowed you have to be fair and show him a gentlemen gesture, such as: I support you when you need, and I will cover your back too.
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ReplyDeleteDefinitely it is a good idea. We are talking about friends whether it is a large amount of money or not. In fact, if that person is looking for your help it means that honestly your support is necessary. The question “Could you lend me some money?” is hard to ask for everyone. It is embarrassing, also when you have to ask a friend or family about it. You know how your friend is and you do not need reasons to lend it. It is not a business; that person is familiar. Like that person is for you, you are for that person. In addition and talking about friends, sometimes you know that they need before asking.
In the case that you need your money back because it was too much money, you have enough belief to ask him for it.
I like this response the BEST! :) Friends are friends!
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I think that is depend of who you trust. Sometimes we have to be good person and help the people that is close to us. But, that is exactly what a i meant. If you decided to lend money to someone that is not exactly your good friend, you are taking the risk. In a fact, you also have to think that we don´t know if we always going to be in a good economic position. And in that moment, think about who is going to support us?
ReplyDeleteBut the risk involve. When someone that you think you know, end up betraying. for example one time ago i lend money to one of my friend. And she never pay me back. And we ended up fighting each other. Maybe, lend money could be good, but everything depend of the honesty of the person that you trust.
Thanks for sharing your story!
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Usually lend money to a friend is a good idea. If he is a real friend, for sure he will give you back the money. But it could be also a bad idea if the person that recive the money is a bad man. Maybe he doesn't want to give you the money back and you will ruin a friendship for a stupid reason. Sometimes the money could be like evil, in our society more and more people think that the money are the most important thing of our life. That type of person have lost their valors and their souls, because there are a lot of things more important than the money. So if you want to lend money you have to be careful and try to understand what type of person is asking you the money before give it to him.
ReplyDeleteThanks to my experience i understand that lend money to friends is not a good idea , because rarely they will give you back it. I remember one time which I lended the money to a friend to buy a train ticket for Milan , I have never see again . I have never required back them. For this personal experience I am sceptical to lend money to a friend ; of curse exist that person that give you back the money and sometimes with the interests too but , unfortunatelly, I don't have had the fortune to meet him . However , with this experience I know that can't to be a good thing give money to friends or other people because you can't know if you will be returned. But the situation could change if we were talking about business. Lend money to a company or to an association can be considered a good idea because you know that , sooner or later ,the money that you have invested or give to them will be returned , thing that with your friends you aren't certain. Nonetheless even when you lean money to a company you have to be careful because , before you give the money in the hand of other people , you must to know where you put it. The money , generally , is a difficoult thing to manage , we can't joke with it , is not a toys and we have always to be careful with it.
ReplyDeleteIts depends, about the kind of friends that you have , is those are good with you and gives you back the favors and pay you back you(without ask for it) should do everything for them, and if the contrary you just do not len more money to them . A lot of people are just with you because is probably that They just need something that you can proportion or give it to them(They should ask you for a lot of thing every time) . But a little percent of them really care about you . You just have to know chose the right people. I'm late but I always do <3
ReplyDeleteIts depends, about the kind of friends that you have , is those are good with you and gives you back the favors and pay you back you(without ask for it) should do everything for them, and if the contrary you just do not len more money to them . A lot of people are just with you because is probably that They just need something that you can proportion or give it to them(They should ask you for a lot of thing every time) . But a little percent of them really care about you . You just have to know chose the right people. I'm late but I always do it <3
DeleteI think It depends to whom are you lending money, because if is a closer friend you could lend that money. But you have to know that maybe that person is not going to give you that money back.
ReplyDeleteIf friends need money, I would lend money to them no matter if they pay me back or not, but sometimes you need your money back and you have to ask to that person about your money. The most important thing is trust in the person that you are lending money and then you'll see if they give you your money back.
Helping someone is always a good idea, even more if it is a friend and if I have enough money to help. But, I think that the conditions of the loan have to be clear, maybe agree a payment period, if I know that my friend have the opportunity to pay me back, or lending money knowing that I won´t see again, because not worth losing a friendship because of money.
ReplyDeleteAlso, for me is important know what my friend will do with the money, because I don't have spare money and I am going to take money from my expenses.
I think it's a good idea to lend money to a friend because it's important to help your friends. It's a proof of your generosity. But nowadays you need to know very good the person and to be confident. Indeed today the honesty of people doesn't always exist anymore. For example, in my country, I already observed that people don't refund by themselves. You often need to remind them that you lend money. It's because in Europe some values are lost and the money become the only important thing.
ReplyDeleteI think it's a good idea to lend money to a friend only if he is a confident person that you really know for a long time en if his asking is not too exaggerated. In my opininion, lend money because his wallet was recently stolen or because it is the end of the month is of course a common act of generosity between good friends. In an other case, if my friend has a real problem of money because he spends it too easily, he's not frugal and collects debts, I won't lend him money because I know that he wouldn't be able to help me if I have a problem. In this kind of case, I prefer help him with solutions in the long term. It's also important to support your friend when they are in the real "shit" as spend time with him to care about his finances, count his income and spending, maybe search a part time job with him, give some advices about how spend money in the real necessaries, search a appartment less expensive ... I'd also like to suggest to be careful about your friendship, to be always sure that the person you think know is a honest person who don't steal your money, your time, your compasion and your heart. In conclusion, helping your best friend, your brother or your boy friend when it is necessary is of course a good thing but stay careful. Don't forget that the person who needs your help has to be capable to cope with his personal problems before call you.
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